#小菲投稿

#小菲投稿

I broke up with my Chinese partner, and honestly, I’m so fucking emotionally drained. We were never married, but we have a child together.

Sobrang nakakapagod maging partner ng taong tingin sa’yo ay empleyado lang na pinapasahod niya. No matter how much you try to understand him or stand up for yourself, everything turns into an argument, and anything you say can be used against you.

Minsan sweet siya, minsan mabait, love-bombing, pero putangina, paulit-ulit lang ang cycle. Mas madalas pa rin ang shitty behavior niya toward me. I’m so sick of him that even seeing his face drains me emotionally. Umabot na ako sa point na natatakot na akong magsalita dahil kahit anong sabihin o gawin ko, may mali pa rin, and somehow, everything gets turned against me.

He even uses financial support against me para mahirapan akong makipaghiwalay. He threatens to stop supporting our baby’s medical needs if I leave him. How fucking cruel is that? Gagamitin mo pa ang medical needs ng sarili mong anak para kontrolin ang nanay niya?

His true behavior became more apparent when we started living under the same roof and had a child together. Doon ko mas nakita kung gaano ka-emotionally draining ang ugali niya.

I’m fucking tired of constantly trying to understand him while slowly losing my peace and mental health in the process.
我和我的中国伴侣分手了，说实话，我真的精疲力竭。我们虽然没结婚，但有一个孩子。

和一个只把你当成他付钱雇佣的员工的人做伴侣，真的太累了。不管你多么努力地理解他，多么努力地维护自己的权益，最终都会演变成争吵，你说的任何话都可能被用来对付你。

有时候他很温柔，有时候他很体贴，甚至会用甜言蜜语哄我，但那只是个混蛋，这种循环不断重复。他对我的态度依然很糟糕。我受够了他，甚至看到他的脸都会让我感到无比痛苦。我已经到了不敢说话的地步，因为无论我说什么做什么，他都会说我错了，而且不知怎么的，所有的事情最终都会反过来指责我。

他甚至用经济支持来威胁我，让我更难提出分手。他威胁说，如果我离开他，他就停止支付我们孩子的医疗费用。这他妈也太残忍了吧？你打算利用自己孩子的医疗需求来控制他妈妈吗？

自从我们开始同住一个屋檐下，有了孩子之后，他的真面目才更加暴露无遗。那时我才真正体会到他的行为有多么令人精疲力竭。

我他妈的已经厌倦了不断地试图理解他，却在这个过程中慢慢失去内心的平静和精神健康。

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